Thursday, August 25, 2011

Back To School

It's that time of year again and as we head back to school, I notice the excitement in the kids all around me. It doesn't matter whether they say they don't want school to start or not, I think secretly most of them are ready for school. Afterall, where else can they find so many different challenges and joys all under one roof?!?!

At my daughter's middle school, the girls are starting cheerleading practice and volleyball tryouts. The band, orchestra, choir, Mathletes and many other groups and clubs are gathering to kick off their year. The boys are already practicing football to get ready for the big game! The other night we were standing in the backyard and could hear the high school marching band practicing. They've already had their first game of the season! There are not many feelings like the thrill and excitement of a football game, whether you're a fan or not. If you're really paying attention, you can't help but feel the energy in a football stadium!

As we head back to school, I often wonder if we can add anymore to our schedules but somehow, someway we make time to do the things that we want to do. Everytime I hear someone say that I just don't have time for that, I think to myself that you will make the time if you really want to. My advice to you is to make the time for the things that are really important. Spend time reading with your children. Have a family game night. Watch a family movie together. If you have teenagers, sit with them at the computer and find out what they like about facebook or whatever it is that they are into. Do it before it's too late! Develop a relationship with your children that will get you through the rough times.

Our children are with us for a relatively short amount of time. By the time they become teenagers, even though they are still living at home, they are starting to define who they are as an individual. This is an important and necessary process on their journey to becoming an adult but they are already pulling away from us. Cherish the time when they are little and take advantage of their unconditional devotion to you. It goes by in a blink of the eye!

Now that the school year has kicked off, this Friday night when you are trying to think of something that you can do with your family - go check out the local high school football game. Sports have long been a tradition in our country and the excitement gleened from a football game is thrilling. The comraderie and bonding that is done during sporting events is priceless!

Are you ready for some football?!?!?!?!